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Dedicated, not Obsessed - POSTED ON: Mar 04, 2011
Here's my Opinion. Lighten up. Having a "Food Obsession" is okay. Personally, I have no desire to reduce my own "food obsession". I'm the kind of person who really gets into anything I do, any interest I have. So what if I'm not "normal" around food. So what if food, and issues around food, are important to me. So what if I spend a lot of my time thinking about food and/or weight. I'm not going to waste my life shaming myself because of it. Food is just as important or interesting as anything else... ....in fact it is the one thing that is vital for life to exist.
Just because a "saying" is old, doesn't make it right.. I think "Eat to Live, not Live to Eat" is just a B.S. Value Judgment. It really is just another way for people who don't share my values to negate them. Am I REALLY going to let that part of Society legislate my morality? No.
Acceptance of oneself and one's personal interests apply generally, in that much of modern Society now has a "live and let live" morality, or "do what you want, as long as you don't' hurt others" ... ....but it makes a BIG EXCEPTION about allowing a fat person to feel okay about food and their fat, and it generally agrees that it's okay to tell a fat person how they are SUPPOSED to feel and behave, and to try to shame them into feeling guilty for what is natural to them.
Just watch one episode of the TV show, The Biggest Loser, and see Society's current value judgments about the obese contestants. Notice how the obese contestants buy into those negative Beliefs about themselves, and how they state their belief that unless they are thin, they have no life. Notice how they feel they deserve the ill treatment they get on that show, including severe verbal abuse...and even (what I would call) physical abuse.
Then, when they lose weight, notice how they are encouraged to become missionaries to the world and work to convert other fat people to their new beliefs.
"Obsessed is what the weak and lazy call the Dedicated"
Society in general, finds it acceptable for people to be obsessed with exercise, sports, television shows, video games, hobbies, work, money, shopping, relationships, family, sex, parenting, vacations, etc. etc. etc. But, God Forbid, that anyone should feel okay about being obsessed with food.....
ESPECIALLY, if that person is overweight, obese, or very thin... Only a "normal" sized female can acceptably demonstrate a strong interest in food... and even that Acceptance is very limited. Actually, this Quote is not exclusively related to food issues. Dedicated, not Obsessed...
The Essence of Diets - Part Two - POSTED ON: Mar 03, 2011
As I stated in a previous Blog, The Essence Of Diets – Part One I’ve been thinking a great deal about the essence of Diets. The term “diet” is defined as Habitual Nourishment.
It seems clear to me that there are essentially 3 issues involved in all Diets, One main food issue, AMOUNT,. and two sub-issues, KIND and FREQUENCY.
AMOUNT -- of food eaten. KIND – fundamental nature (micronutrients) of food eaten. FREQUENCY of eating food.
RESTRICTIONS: All Diets involving weight-loss or maintenance of weight-loss place restrictions on one or more of those 3 food issues.
My careful study of many different diets has revealed some things to me.. things that might be obvious to others, but which took me some time to figure out. I’m still not certain about all of them, but here are a few “insights”.
The majority of diet book authors claim to have used that diet him/herself, and had excellent weight-loss results from it. I tend to believe this is true. What this proves to me is that there are a great many different ways to lose weight, but that what all of them have in common is EATING LESS.
EATING LESS, of course, means…not just eating less than one ate in the past while gaining weight, but also eating less than the amount of one’s normal (maintenance) energy burn. This, of course, is where it gets sticky.. ... because all of the rules one finds in the Expert’s charts and graphs are simply Generalizations.
People are different. Male and Female, Tall and Short, Large and Small, Young and Old, Sedentary and Active. Each of these categories changes a person’s basic energy use. In addition, Genetics vary between people, and even being a “reduced obese” person changes energy use.
Diet Books show that there are many different ways to accomplish EATING LESS. All of these ways involve somehow reducing the “calorie” amount of a person’s food intake. This can be done Directly, or Indirectly. In my previous post, The Essence Of Diets - Part One, I discussed many of the details of that issue.
Most diet book authors who have created Diets,
The Essence of Diets - Part One - POSTED ON: Mar 02, 2011
I’ve been thinking a great deal about the essence of Diets. The term “diet” is defined as Habitual Nourishment.
The term “calorie” is the term used to measure the energy value inside food, i.e. the unit equivalent to the energy-producing amount of food when oxidized in the body. In order for the human body to become a smaller size by losing bodyfat, that body must take in less energy than it uses.
I have read hundreds of diet books, and been on many, many weight-loss diets. Each of them appears to be some variation of a way to “EAT LESS and MOVE MORE”. One of the things I find fascinating about Gary Taubes’ books, one of which is now featured here in the section BOOKTALK. is that in one way his concept seems to break that mold……and yet in another way…the concept seems to fit into it.
I’m going to share some thoughts about this here. Then at some future time, I plan to share some further personal insights on this matter. It seems clear to me that there are essentially 3 issues involved in all Diets, One main food issue, AMOUNT, and two sub-issues, KIND and FREQUENCY.
AMOUNT -- of food eaten –
KIND – fundamental nature (micronutrients) of food eaten .
FREQUENCY of eating food.
AMOUNT – This can involve either DIRECT or INDIRECT restriction.
DIRECT restriction involving AMOUNT, some Examples include:
Counting food calories with the goal of staying near a certain number. Counting food points. ...
An Individual Fit - POSTED ON: Mar 01, 2011
An individual Fit is necessary when it comes to Diets or Lifestyles.
Have you thought that if you did just what someone else does, you would look just like them? Yet when you try to copy their choice of foods and fitness activities, you’re miserable.
Then when you stop doing it, you feel like you failed. You didn't fail. It was just a bad lifestyle fit. Each of us is an individual on our own journey, and none of us are exactly alike. Some people need to follow a specific eating plan and have foods they never eat again. A Plan like this makes some people feel deprived and leads to binge eating. Some people need to eat smaller quantities of what they want at frequent times, while taking extra care to carefully log that food into their trackers.
I don’t like any outside control on my eating behavior I hate having well-meaning people ask: "Should you be eating that?" Others aren’t any more right or more wrong than me. We all want to save ourselves from obesity, and there are many options available. The secret is to find what works for each one of us personally. There is a lot of advice out there from the weight loss industry. So many “medical discoveries” happening in the field, So many magazines promoting “new miracle diets”, So many tips and tricks.
Now Obesity is considered an epidemic but there’s no vaccination…no one-cure-fits-all fix. Each of us has to find our own way. We know some basics of calories-in and calories-out which is one starting point of our physical problem. However genetic, psychological, character-related, disease-related, and other problems, are involved as well. These are all variables which cause more than one problem and require more than one solution.
Note that in “Why We Get Fat And What To Do About It” by Gary Taubes, the basic belief in calories-in/calories-out is even termed the "Original Sin”.
What works for me may not work for you. What works for you might not work for me.
Each of us wants to find a way to change our life without severely disrupting it. That’s a tough Goal. To accomplish that, we need to gather as much information as is possible, and make changes that work best individually.
What is the Best Way To Diet? - POSTED ON: Feb 27, 2011
There are many different diets, ways-of-eating, and lifestyles. I believe that each of us has to find his or her own way.
All of the Weight-Loss/Maintenance research and theories contain flaws, and each of us is individually conducting an Experiment of One. I totally agree with the following quote by an online forum member.
"You see a lot of contradiction in diet books and on diet blogs and message boards. Some people will tell you to eat certain foods, others tell you to stay away from them, eat six meals, or maybe just three meals, do aerobics, avoid aerobics, take these pills, don't take any pills. Nobody's right. Everyone's right. You have to think of a diet as a trip home for Thanksgiving -- it's a personal destination and you should know better than anybody how to get there. If you're driving east on the highway heading home for Thanksgiving, you'll see a lot of cars driving west. If the person in the passenger seat said, "There's a lot of people heading home for the holiday," you wouldn't turn to that person and flip out and say, "What the hell! What a bunch of retards! Don't they know home is this way?" But that is what diet writing often is -- people arguing over how to get home."
"You see a lot of contradiction in diet books and on diet blogs and message boards. Some people will tell you to eat certain foods, others tell you to stay away from them, eat six meals, or maybe just three meals, do aerobics, avoid aerobics, take these pills, don't take any pills.
Nobody's right. Everyone's right.
You have to think of a diet as a trip home for Thanksgiving -- it's a personal destination and you should know better than anybody how to get there.
If you're driving east on the highway heading home for Thanksgiving, you'll see a lot of cars driving west.
If the person in the passenger seat said, "There's a lot of people heading home for the holiday," you wouldn't turn to that person and flip out and say, "What the hell! What a bunch of retards! Don't they know home is this way?"
But that is what diet writing often is -- people arguing over how to get home."
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